English versus American family structures.

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I was born and reared in the south of England, as you can see. When I was younger, I used to be really confused and unaware of what we were doing or how things worked. It’s a significant adjustment, and we didn’t realize how different our families really are until we got to America.

When we first arrived in America in 1972, there weren’t many jobs or work opportunities, so my parents decided to move us to New Orleans so we could live with them for a year. It soon became apparent that we were merely passing through the United States while residing in a small town called South Louisiana.

They were already married, but before they could even get hitched, they got engaged! My father thus proposed to my mother while they were both at work, and they were planning a little wedding. My father kissed the girl after their first big holiday, which included a trip to Hawaii, but gave up the ring before. He claimed that the pressure to get hitched now was too great. Thus, my mother decided against getting married. She then questioned whether I preferred having a partner over a fiancé in the future. She said, “You deserve better than that. “I do!” I responded by saying. My father had finally accepted his emotions.

Consequently, we never got hitched. My older sister, though, forewarned us that it was improper, saying things like, “You’d be so good in bed,” among other things. My father told my mum after her wedding to “let it go.” Either you possess it or you do not. You’re seeking for that ring. “Get out of here!” He didn’t consider it important. When it came time to choose, she went with him rather than my mother. They could no longer stand one other, which is why they moved back to France after a while. Their daughter is present with them today because of that. But as I’ve already said, this family is distinct from the others.

They are all the same across the board in terms of class. The local school in the neighborhood also serves their children and grandchildren. Our American friends attend public schools where they are taught by the same people who have been their teachers for years. I’ve learned a lot about how things are different in this country than they are in this country from their English teacher. For instance, when you make a mistake, you must tell the entire class about it and repeat it until everyone is aware of it. If you don’t know what’s wrong, you can’t ask for help. When I’m confused, I always make sure someone is looking out for me and that I try to communicate effectively.

Additionally, I’ve developed the ability to spot someone in the middle of a conversation and correct them if I’m confused.

My parents in the UK come to mind since they work so hard for our nation. Being helpful to others in society, working, and giving to charities are all positive things to do.

As far as I know, my parents in the United States talk to us all on the phone, listen to us weep and laugh, and offer free advice on anything from politics to career advice.(I mean, I genuinely hope to see the outpouring of support we receive.) I’m anticipating a period when families everywhere will grow, connect, and look more alike.

I once met two very close sisters in London, and they helped to forge a genuine link between us. We are now expanding our own family as well!

I doubt I’ll ever get to see my grandparents again. My mother is an extremely protective person who won’t allow anything to happen without informing her first. But I’m hoping to have one of her grandchildren soon as long as she keeps imparting useful knowledge to me.She is fairly cool till then, though, if anyone wants to know what a British-born Texas woman is thinking.